Forbidden airport needs overhaul and civility training

Beijing is now a forbidden city for the White Monkey. I've had four connecting flights through Beijing airport, and I've had serious hassles all four times. On my first trip, soldiers stood on either side of me holding machine guns because I didn't have an entry visa for a five-hour layover and a "transfer ticket" for my suitcase. A counter clerk at Beijing made a stink. When I started the trip and checked in at Ho Chi Minh City airport, I expected the suitcase to go through to Dulles in Washington, D.C. -- I'm such an embezzle and maroon, as Bugs Bunny would say. Some shirt-and-tie official intervened, sent the soldiers away and in poor English said I had to retrieve the bag, check in, get another ticket and go through customs, immigration and bag scan again. I nearly missed the connecting flight to D.C. despite the five-hour layover. Really. The second time was a simple three-hour delay and gate change without any announcement in English. The gate change was noted on the schedule board -- the muffled announcement over the loudspeaker in Chinese didn't help. I learned my lesson from hassle #1 and kept checking the board. Hassle #3 was a missed connection due to weather -- we were told by Air China that the plane would wait for us (ha ha, it was one of the few connecting flights that took off on time). The missed flight was followed by a long wait in line for hotel vouchers that ran out, and to make a long, long story short, I got a flight to D.C. the following day. Hassle #4 last week was a simple 2-hour delay and long wait to go though customs and bag checks (again). This layover was also noteworthy for the remarkable rudeness of the staff. I asked the immigration official who checked my passport and ticket: "Where do I go from here?" He responded in what I considered a sharp tone: "You go away. You go away."  I get it. There's a serious language barrier. I'm an ugly American so there's going to be serious cultural differences. But if China is the No. 1 power in the world as some English guy at my former language center once said to me in a snarky tone, the world is in deep trouble. (It seems headed that way with Trump leading the U.S.) I love China -- I'm a devotee of tai chi and one of my tai chi instructors is like a hero to me. The food is OK -- not dazzling, but OK. The Air China flights I've taken have been fine for the most part with good movies, but Beijing airport and the massive amount of people shoving their way through lines there ... come on, this place is out of control and needs an organizational and politeness overhaul. And oddly enough, it's gotten a teeny, tiny bit better -- no more arrival and departure forms for connecting travelers, so maybe there's a teeny, tiny bit of hope.

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It's difficult to describe how happy I was when I saw Phuong at the airport when I arrived at 2:40 a.m. instead of the schedule arrival time of 12:20 a.m. My wife has the most infectious and beautiful smile in the world, and we both smiled the entire, one-hour ride home in a taxi. Other than losing a present for Joanna and the charger for my MacBook Pro -- God knows how -- the trip was pretty much a success for me. Phuong's mom stayed in the house with Joanna, and it was difficult for me not to wake Joanna up and hug and kiss her when I got home. Joanna seemed really thrilled to see me when she woke up and has been showing off for me since I got back. She speaks constantly, and most of it is intelligible -- of course I think she's smart, charming and beautiful, like my other two daughters. Joanna changed quite a bit in the month I was away -- she's even taller and her hair is a shaggy mop. Her language skills are top notch, and her temper and stubbornness are second to none.

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Phuong and I are waiting to hear from the U.S. Embassy to have a visa interview so she can come to the U.S. with me and Joanna to live and work.  We hope for the best, but sometimes I expect the worst. No matter. If she's rejected for what I think would be racist, petty and mean-spirited reasons, I'll simply return to the U.S. annually to take care of my eyes and other business, and then I'll return to Phuong and Joanna. I'd be OK with that because I won't go through Beijing airport anymore.

In the U.S.: Great directions, visa hope, hospitality

One of the reasons I've really enjoyed my time in the U.S.  is that people in Dayton, Ohio, were uncanny when they gave me driving directions to a street, exit ramp, pie shop, or restaurant. The people I asked were thoughtful, respectful, and on the mark every time. Five times I bothered a complete stranger, and the stranger -- didn't matter if it was a man, woman, or child -- politely pointed me in the right direction. One guy said to me: "I'm not real sure, but I think it's on the left-hand side of the road two red lights up on the corner ... a red building. Not sure though." It was like a scene from Fargo. And of course the guy's directions were spot on.  One woman sent me through three lights, over two bridges and around a bend -- and there it was: the pie shop I was looking for with exquisite strawberry pies. A buddy of mine, John, isn't from Dayton but he's from Ohio and is even better with directions. He's more specific and knows the fastest way to get you where you're going. Since my iPhone isn't "connected" in the U.S., there's no navigation help for me. And I'm technically challenged anyway. I had a heck of a drive from Ohio to Hoboken, N.J., across I80 -- a pretty drive that was interrupted when I hit blinding thunderstorms, ridiculous traffic, road construction, and detours that nearly took me through the Holland Tunnel into Manhattan. Don't want to go there. But the kindness of strangers -- a guy from Pakistan and a man from India -- got me to my destination in New Jersey and eventually back to Delaware. See that Donald ... immigrants make our country great (again). Another reason I enjoyed the trip was a good report from my eye doctors. All is stable and my vision has actually improved.
I'm also feeling a little more optimistic about Phuong's chances of getting a visa to the U.S. because I had a very upbeat meeting with our lawyer Katie in Cleveland (and a wonderful lunch as well). We're thinking positive thoughts and we see no violations or fraud as we examine Phuong's immigration history. Phuong will interview at the U.S. Embassy in Ho Chi Minh City either later this year or early next year. If for some reason she gets the visa, we'll be heading to the U.S. fairly quickly. That would be wonderful for my wife and our little girl, Joanna.
Given the possibility of a trip to the U.S. for all of us, I've been poking around at housing on the East Coast. I still have a house in Ohio and we'd likely move there at first to see if it's suitable for Joanna and Phuong. Yellow Springs is a diverse little community, so I'm not worried about how Phuong would be treated there. I was worried about Poland, for example, because I didn't see diversity. But the people in Poland were very nice, with a couple of exceptions. I think Phuong and Joanna will do well no matter where we end up -- I like to threaten with Bhutan, the happiest (and muddiest) place on Earth from what I've heard. So, if we leave Vietnam, it'll be to Ohio and then we'll see.
People in the U.S. were extremely kind to the White Monkey, and they know who they are. I'll mention Andy, Ron and John, who gave me a place to sleep and are three quality human beings and my friends for life (they may not see it that way, but that's how it is for me). Friend Tommy was kind, as always. My ex-wife got me a room at an Inn and drove me to our daughter's house. Robyn at the Springs Motel gave me enough gifts for Joanna to last until Christmas. The Springs is a good place to stay and the staff is great -- Robyn rocks. My brother Tom and his wife Shaila let me have the entire finished basement in their new house and I had some wonderful nights of sleep there. I'm writing this blog from the basement. I played a little tennis as well as I prepare to return to the courts of Vietnam and destroy my wife in our vicious and bitter rivalry. I had a lovely visit with my children and grandchild in Ohio and New York. My kids have grown into remarkable adults. I spent too much time in my expensive rental car because roadwork in the U.S. is pervasive and brutal. Drives that normally take 2 and a half hours were taking me four hours ... ugh! Happened twice on the Washington D.C. to Delaware/Maryland drive. And the Ohio to Delaware/Maryland "commute" usually takes 9 hours at most, but lasted more than 10 hours on this trip. America is being made great again ... one stretch of road at a time.
Leaving for Vietnam on Tuesday. Can't wait to see Phuong and Joanna.

Finally in U.S. after enduring Beijing blues; 'Big King'

First and foremost, hello to my beautiful wife Phuong and incredible baby Joanna; miss you and love you both.

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I arrived in Elkton, Md., after the usual trials and tribulations of traveling through Beijing. My flight from Ho Chi Minh to Beijing was delayed nearly an hour by rain. A staffer from Air China assured us that the connecting flight in Beijing would wait for us. Of course, it didn't wait, and some of us got stuck in Beijing airport waiting in horrible lines, dealing with rude staffers who didn't speak English, and drinking coffee for nine hours before we were finally bused to a hotel an hour away. We arrived too late for dinner and left too early for breakfast. The bus took us back to the airport and the flight to Dulles in Washington D.C. was relatively smooth. The four movies I watched -- Kill the Messenger; Deepwater Horizon; American Pastoral; In the Heart of the Sea -- weren't bad and certainly helped pass the time on the 13-plus-hour flight. Unfortunately, Beijing airport is flat-out disorganized. The price of the round trip flight is more than reasonable, but the airport is unacceptable. You get what you pay for. I met two gentlemen -- Tom of Bel Air, Md., and Trung of Ho Chi Minh City -- who were in the same mess I was in, and we passed the time together making silly jokes, solving world problems and drinking coffee. The extended layover would have really sucked without their company. Thank you gentlemen.
Getting a rental car was a little tricky because there weren't many available, but after some extended walking around the outskirts of the airport, I got a Mazda. I drove through D.C. rush-hour traffic to get to Elkton. The trip took four hours, which is rather long for the distance, but after Beijing, I didn't mind sitting in the car after sitting and standing around a crowded and hot airport.
I got to my buddy Ron's house about 8 p.m., drank a wonderful Oude Gueuze lambic purchased at State Line Liquors, and fell asleep about a half-hour later. Slept like a baby. It's been great visiting with Ron and his classy son Travis and Travis' partner, Angel. Nice folk and very generous as well.  Adding to my pleasant visit so far has been some very pleasant weather -- 85 in the day, mid-60s at night, with pretty low humidity. I cooked Atlantic salmon and vegetables with curry and garlic at Ron's last night, and it came out quite well -- the late Anthony Bourdain would have been proud, maybe. I have the usual travel to Ohio coming up to see my eye doctor, property manager for my house, and our immigration lawyer. I'm happy that my friends seem to be doing well. I plan to see friends Andy, Freddie and John, and visit with family. I'm a little less jazzed about returning to the U.S. to live, given the sour mood of the country related to the Trump presidency. The country seems divided to me, and the hope I felt under the Obama presidency appears to be missing now. Aw, what the hell do I know?

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While in transit in China, I lost some gifts I got for my kids, but they're just things and things can be replaced. Family can't ... and that's another of the lessons I've learned being overseas for so long.  I visited my mom and dad's grave site outside Newark, Del., for the first time since they died. I'll put some flowers on the graves today, but I'm not one for grave sties. Of course I miss them, but these days I try to honor their lives by following the good examples and lessons I learned from their lives, especially from my mom.

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I'm looking at some houses in the Wilmington and Newark area today. If Phuong, Joanna and I are ever allowed to return to the U.S., I might like for Joanna to grow up on the East Coast. It's where I grew up and I'm comfortable with the area. But Yellow Springs is awesome. We'll see.

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Watching the British Open on Ron's TV -- I'm very busy ... you don't understand. The only TV sports I watch in Bien Hoa are the four tennis majors. I didn't even watch the Super Bowl or NBA finals. Sorry LeBron. But speaking of tennis, I relinquished No.1 in the house to Phuong, who beat me 7-6 (7-5) in a heartbreaking tiebreaker. The moral of that story is that my net game and fitness need work.  My injuries are slowly improving, so it's only a matter of time before I reclaim my rightful place on the No. 1 throne. Before I came to the U. S., Joanna called me "Big King" a couple of times. She's so bright. Another reason I really, really hate being away from Phuong and Joanna.

Thieves try to break into our house; Joanna turns 2; Phuong's brother delivers ticks to our house with tank

Thieves tried to break into our house Wednesday morning at about 3 a.m. They pried open a bathroom window but encountered metal bars behind the window. Apparently, they gave up, just like they gave up trying to be successful members of society. They were successful getting into our neighbor's house, unfortunately, and stole a backpack with some cash inside. Crazy shit. People don't call the police here over stuff like this. Not sure why, but maybe this sort of thing happens a lot in Bien Hoa and police don't have time.  If I encountered someone in my house, it wouldn't be a good thing for me or the intruder. In my view, this is a dangerous, grimy and unpleasant city. Thieves kill guard dogs and break into houses routinely, people burn plastic and throw their trash into the streets routinely, and people ride their motorbikes into each other and on the sidewalks ... routinely. No need to discuss manners or weather. I really worry for my daughter, especially because everyone here is obsessed with the fact that she looks different than the other kids, and they willingly point that out to us. Geez, I never would have noticed if those kind people didn't tell Phuong and I about Joanna's "different" appearance.  Hopefully, Phuong can get a visa to come to the U.S. sooner rather than later. 

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Joanna turned 2 years old last week and my wife Phuong worked her butt off to produce a wonderful, happy and special birthday celebration for Joanna. Phuong got pizza, hung streamers, selected wonderful presents, and did everything that a loving, caring and dedicated mom does for her child. Phuong's nephews and a neighbor joined the party. They played soccer in the living room, and Joanna tried to play as well. It was a wild scene and everyone had a great time. After watching me blow out the 'No. 2' birthday candle on her cake, Joanna copied and successfully blew out the candle. Cheers all around. Phuong's mom came over with a present, but that's it. Birthdays aren't huge events here, like in the U.S., but they're celebrated and they seem to be getting bigger. This was a pretty low-keyed affair, all things considered, but it was cozy and pleasant. It's difficult to determine exactly what Joanna understands at this point. However, it was easy to tell she was having a great time and she seemed to understand the activity was on her behalf.

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I know the late Anthony Bourdain loved Vietnamese food. Me? Not so much, especially the main courses. Pho is OK and the chicken is excellent, but I'll take a Charcoal Pit burger or Grotto's pizza from Delaware in the U.S. any day. It's just how you're raised and what you consider comfort food, I guess. That said, some local fruits and vegetables I've had in Vietnam are the best I've ever had. Bon bon has become my favorite. It's the size of a kumquat; you peel and eat and sometimes you can eat the seed inside. It tastes like a mildly sweet grapefruit with the texture of a firm grape -- or something like that (I ain't Anthony Bourdain). I've written about them before, but they're so darn good and they're "in season" now, so they deserve a second mention even if they can make your hands sticky for a long time after you peel them. 

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Phuong's brother gave us the big fish stand and tank, and the package included -- at no extra cost -- about 300 ticks, which were inside the legs of the stand and the tank. We kept finding ticks everywhere and when I realized the tank and stand came from Phuong's brother's garden, the mystery was easily solved. This is the same guy who gave us the killer catfish and Tet tree with two scorpions. I told him no need to get anything else for Joanna's birthday. He's an incredibly nice man, though, and he has no fear of God's creatures great and small.

Fish story; age issues; laptop ruined; poverty

Everyone has a fish story. Here's mine:
Phuong's brother wanted to help, so he gave us a catfish for Joanna's new, improved and bigger fish tank. Her little fish tank was just too ... well, little, so we upgraded to a bigger tank with a pump. Anyway, we already had about 15 tiny tropical fish (we do live in the tropics and they're very cheap to buy here), so Joanna and the relocated little fish welcomed the big catfish into the bigger tank -- the catfish was about six inches long and really stood out among its one-inch neighbors. Phuong's brother assured us the catfish wouldn't eat the little guys, and gullible, novice fish keepers that we are, we believed him. For two days, all seemed well. The catfish acted hyper, but it stayed on the bottom of the tank, swimming fiercely back and forth but not bothering the little fish. But that restless "pacing" was an omen. When Phuong went downstairs Saturday morning to check on the tank, there were only two fish inside: a bloated, well-fed catfish and a super tiny baby fish.  Obviously, the catfish ate its neighbors, and it was most likely waiting for the baby fish to get bigger so it could eat it, too. Phuong and I had a good laugh over the catfish's tropical feast, although I'm sure the victims didn't find the situation funny. Joanna didn't care and focused her attention on the catfish. The catfish was sent to a pond on a property owned by Phuong's brother, and Phuong went to a fish shop and bought about 20 little fish for the tank. Water world is wonderful and peaceful again, except for Joanna constantly trying to climb inside the bigger tank. She actually laughs when I almost put her inside the tank in my pathetic effort to teach her a lesson. Joanna can smell a bluff.

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I've had some physical issues lately related to past surgeries, accidents and lifestyle, and Phuong has mercilessly taken full advantage to reclaim to the No. 1 tennis ranking in our house, routing me in five of our last six matches. Age has clearly diminished the White Monkey's tennis skills and recuperative powers -- tai chi be damned -- but my excuse-making skills remain as strong as ever. Perhaps the brutal heat is a factor. It has taken the joy out of our daily walk. Sometimes, Joanna seems drained by the heat and humidity. She becomes a ball of energy when there is air conditioning, however, which means she perks up in the bedroom at night when it's time to go to sleep. I have to leave the room, or she'll never go to sleep.

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The mayhem in our house has extended to the electronic world as well.  The lazy White Monkey rolled over rather than sitting up to get out bed last week, and my elbow crunched the screen of my HP laptop, creating a weird LSD-like effect on the now useless screen. All my school stuff and videos for Joanna were on the HP, so I copied everything to a hard drive and transferred the files to my MacBook Pro, which is finally getting some use. Since I'm back on the Mac, I've been downloading more music lately and buying books, which also means I'm spending more money. What a dope I am. Now I'll have to teach more private students, which can be problematic for reasons stated in one of my previous blogs.

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Sometimes, the poverty here jolts you. I know I'm repeating myself on this topic, and that there are poor people everywhere, but difficult circumstances are so visible here. Just around corner from our house, a family lives on cots under a tree, and their little kids bathe in public with water from hoses that belong to a car rental business. That family lives next to two homeless guys who sleep under another tree. People rarely beg here. They're too proud for that, and even the poor will help the really poor. It's an unwritten code of sorts. The issues I occasionally face are nothing compared to what these folks deal with every day. Yet, they still smile and yell Hi! when Joanna and I go by on our walk. Makes me appreciate what I have even more, and once again, makes me realize how selfish my complaints are.

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Finished another book: The Great Gatsby ... it wasn't that great, but it was a quick read. Now I'm reading A Tale of Two Cities ... it isn't a quick read.

Nice legs; what's your name? tattoo stigma; Joanna's fish

Two girls in very short skirts displaying tattoos on their upper thighs, which I find distasteful, were leaving the coffee shop I frequent just as I was arriving with Joanna. The girls, in their mid-20s, looked at me and then looked at each other, with one girl saying to the other in a very provocative manner: "What's your name?" It was for my benefit, of course, so I responded with that local conversational classic, also in a very provocative manner: "Where you from?" We didn't get to the intimate "How old you?" and "How much?" because I wanted a cappuccino and, like I said, I had Joanna with me. Oh yeah, and I'm married.
I've mentioned this before. Tattoos carry heavy significance in Vietnam. Women that have them often work in the "business" and men that have them are labeled "gangsters." My Vietnamese isn't good enough to know for sure if this is or isn't the case. I still don't believe it, but this country reminds me of the U.S. in the 1950s in a lot of ways. The stigma of tattoos, for example.
Many of the girls and women here wear very short skirts (now we're in the U.S. in the 1960s), but feign modesty when you look at their legs, which usually are very nice. The girls will try to tug their skirts lower -- good luck with that  -- when they think they're being stared at. If their skirts or shorts are simply too short to tug, so to speak, sometimes they'll put jackets over their legs. Bummer. They want to put their best features out there, but they don't want to look cheap in the process. Good luck with that. My wife, like most women here, has very nice legs. But she calls herself a "classical" person and wears longer shorts or pants. At tennis, occasionally she'll wear shorter gym shorts, and I notice a lot of the men who play soccer next door come over to watch us. I don't think they want to see my titillating forehand or sexy serve when they press their faces to the chain-link fence, although my forehand is titillating at times, and my serve is clearly sexy.

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My daughter Joanna seems to be doing well enough. Everything is in English so far. She counts (to 19 without the 5 or 12), says the ABCs (with a few gaps here and there) and parrots much of what I say, which means I have to be more careful of what I say. The White Monkey will drop the occasional F-bomb, for example when I hit my head on low cabinets, spill water from the tiny sinks, don't have hot water, don't have electric, don't have coffee, wake up in the morning, go to bed at night ... you get the idea.
Joanna loves to finish words in stories: "Cat in the HAT!" She doesn't scream HAT! but she says it with pride and gusto. "The realm of magic BEASTS!" Some of the finishing words she says are multi-syllabic and I'm surprised when she says them. Her new trick is to do something bad, then preemptively say "no no no no no."
My daughter Joanna embodies the characteristics of so many people in my family. She looks like my mom and has my mom's expressions and determination; she possesses one of my daughter's fiery spirit and quick smile; my other daughter's kind and caring nature; my one son's intellect and wise judgment; my other son's likeable personality and good heart. She has Phuong's overall goodness, smartness and beauty. She has my family's and Phuong's family's stubbornness.  She has my height and size, and my temper. Uh-oh. She's become mommy's girl and doesn't care for dad, like all of my children. But I'm so proud of these kids and I hope and pray that Joanna becomes successful, smart and wise, like her half-brothers and sisters.

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We got Joanna a fish tank with 10 tiny fish -- she counts them quite often -- and a soccer ball. These are birthday presents ahead of her second birthday. She'll turn 2 in July. Time does fly, especially when you enjoy life ... and get older.

Disposing of toilet paper; nouveau riche; lousy pharmacy

In much of the world, notably Vietnam in this instance, used toilet paper is not disposed of in the toilet. Instead, it is placed in a trash can next to the toilet. The White Monkey was not raised this way. If the trash can doesn't have a lid, the sanitation and smell are not up to code -- my personal code. I generally won't use those facilities, unless I've eaten Vietnamese food and it's an emergency. Some public restrooms basically have a hole in the ground -- no seat. That's it. Oh, and they have a trash can next to the hole for the toilet paper, but usually there's no paper. I've been told, and I've read on the Internet, that the plumbing pipes in Asian countries are too thin to handle excessive toilet paper. Makes sense. Many bathrooms don't have toilet paper, but they have a small hose next to the toilet. Use your imagination. Actually, it's amazing what you can adjust to when you're 63 and your personal plumbing has issues of its own. Really, I'm OK with all of it except the hole in the ground. Motorbike accidents have diminished my flexibility, so I really prefer sitting on a seat to squatting over a hole. I can do it, but the discomfort distracts from the business at hand. In the White Monkey's world,  I prefer flushing used toilet paper down the toilet rather than having it sit in a trash can in 100-degree weather all afternoon. I also prefer toilet paper to a hose and my hand. But at the end of the day (the most overused cliche in the world today), my preferences overseas don't mean sh#t.

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Having been poor is no shame, but being ashamed of it is.
--  Ben Franklin
Many people who have recently come into money -- I think they're called the nouveau riche -- carry themselves with an arrogance that is unsavory at best, and cruel and vicious at worst.
 I've seen it in the United States, Peru, and now Vietnam. I wasn't in Poland long enough to witness it there, but I'm sure it existed. Maybe I resent these folks because I'm not rich -- but I know I resent their attitude more than anything else.
In Peru and Vietnam, these people park their SUVs anywhere they damn well please, talk loudly on their cell phones in elevators and restaurants, and walk across your tennis court while you're playing (more in Vietnam than anywhere else I've been).
I'm writing about this  because the economy is growing in Vietnam, there are more SUVs on the road, and really because some guy parked his expensive SUV in the park where we walk. The security guard asked him to move, and the guy said he was a cop, refused, and dared the security guard to call the cops. Some clown races his black SUV up and down our street every morning. At the coffee shop where I read, all the Richie Riches come out on Sunday. They'll grab chairs next to me without asking if it's taken. Sorry Phuong and Joanna -- it's called entitlement. They'll chat in the aisles, with or without cell phones -- and show no inclination of moving if you're trying to pass by.  I stood in line to get my cappuccino when a well-dressed guy came in, walked past me and blurted out his order to the girl behind the counter.  Line cutting is an art form for these folks. So I'll leave you with one more Ben Franklin quote about folks like this:
He that is of the opinion money will do everything may well be suspected of doing everything for money.

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A young neighbor of ours died,  which I thought meant three days of loud singing and "music" outside of our house. It didn't happen. The mourning period was respectful, and the music minimal.The young neighbor was 39 and died from a stroke. He leaves behind a young wife and two children under the age of  four. He was a nice man and always smiled when I walked past his house with Joanna. Joanna would wave, the man would smile, and all seemed good. It's a sad situation now.

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There's a big pharmacy on Vo Thi Sau street that I stopped going to because the girls who work there are weird, rude and just plain stupid. I asked for Band-Aids or adhesive bandages of some sort (the words were written on a piece of  paper in Vietnamese for these morons) and the girls laughed and shook their hands at me, signifying God knows what.  I showed them an adhesive bandage (Band-Aid is a trade name) on my finger and their dim lights flickered. They brought me a single adhesive bandage. I communicated that I needed more (remember, I shower four times a day now), and the girl rolled her eyes at me and brought me another single bandage. I went to another pharmacy where my needs were met hassle-free. I got a box of real Band-Aids with no hand shaking or eye rolling. And I'm sure no English was spoken at that pharmacy as well. I was walking past the big pharmacy on Vo Thi Sau a few days ago when an American approached me for help. He was in pain -- his neck was sore from a long plane trip. I went to the window with the man, pointed to his neck and said "pain"  and "need help" in Vietnamese. The two girls (it takes two girls to not understand and not help you) laughed hysterically. I guess they were laughing at my Vietnamese. The guy who needed help was clearly in pain. One girl laughed so hard she squatted down -- if there was a hole in the ground she could have peed -- and nearly fell over backward. The American was baffled. I wasn't. Those bags of douche have laughed at me a couple of times in the past when I've needed medicine. They hassled my mother-in-law as well. They need a prescription for their poor manners.

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Public grooming is fairly common here and I see lots of women primping each other's hair at restaurants, in stores and in the street. I don't know exactly what they're doing. It looks like they're searching for lice. Not sure this is the most sanitary practice, especially in supermarkets and restaurants. I won't go into nail clipping and nose picking. Oops, too late.

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I'm picking up more private students, almost more than I can handle. Free time is gone, but I still make time to read. Currently finishing Anne of Green Gables. It's supposed to be a children's book, but I find myself enjoying the heck out of it. A wonderful story fit for all ages.